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		By: shari		</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 15 Jul 2019 21:56:09 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Love your posts on health and emotion. It is so true. After being injured- lacerated liver- by my ex, I realized I needed to leave. I did not have the motivation before. Having no where to go, no money, no job and 5 kids makes the motivation part hard. A lot of wives who decide to leave know they are putting themselves and their children in severe danger. This subconscious fear- stockholm syndrom is debilitating. Until the kids get old enough, she has an income, some emotional or physical support- more than not she will stay until she can &quot;see&quot; it. I am so happy to be out. I paid a horrible price when I left, but I am still alive. And I was angry enough to stay out and draw boundaries. SO- yes! liver and anger. Got to be a connection there.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Love your posts on health and emotion. It is so true. After being injured- lacerated liver- by my ex, I realized I needed to leave. I did not have the motivation before. Having no where to go, no money, no job and 5 kids makes the motivation part hard. A lot of wives who decide to leave know they are putting themselves and their children in severe danger. This subconscious fear- stockholm syndrom is debilitating. Until the kids get old enough, she has an income, some emotional or physical support- more than not she will stay until she can &#8220;see&#8221; it. I am so happy to be out. I paid a horrible price when I left, but I am still alive. And I was angry enough to stay out and draw boundaries. SO- yes! liver and anger. Got to be a connection there.</p>
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		By: Kat		</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Oct 2016 14:24:22 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I&#039;ve read and as I understand it, anger in children is often the result of sadness or a sense of distance, lack of attachment to their primary carer.  If their sadness is not recognised and addressed or from past experience is denied it can morph into anger.  A lot of adult anger (this may be the inappropriate type) is caused by childhood triggers (especially parental anger).  These childhood events are stored somewhere in our systems and are in turn triggered by the behaviour of our children.  Until we understand that we are being triggered and it&#039;s not the child&#039;s behaviour but our reaction to it that causes an emotional/physical response, we remain trapped in that cycle.  How many times have parents found themselves thinking &#039;I sound just like my mum/dad.&#039;?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve read and as I understand it, anger in children is often the result of sadness or a sense of distance, lack of attachment to their primary carer.  If their sadness is not recognised and addressed or from past experience is denied it can morph into anger.  A lot of adult anger (this may be the inappropriate type) is caused by childhood triggers (especially parental anger).  These childhood events are stored somewhere in our systems and are in turn triggered by the behaviour of our children.  Until we understand that we are being triggered and it&#8217;s not the child&#8217;s behaviour but our reaction to it that causes an emotional/physical response, we remain trapped in that cycle.  How many times have parents found themselves thinking &#8216;I sound just like my mum/dad.&#8217;?</p>
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		By: voxaesthetica		</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Sep 2016 12:25:22 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Hey Sifu,

This is great! Will you do one of these for the metal element? (Including a metal element balancing technique?) I&#039;m so fascinated! Thanks!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey Sifu,</p>
<p>This is great! Will you do one of these for the metal element? (Including a metal element balancing technique?) I&#8217;m so fascinated! Thanks!</p>
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		By: Sifu Anthony Korahais		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Sifu Anthony Korahais]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Sep 2016 00:14:14 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://flowingzen.com/how-to-get-angry-like-the-dalai-lama/#comment-57438&quot;&gt;claire&lt;/a&gt;.

Hi Claire. I don&#039;t know the context of this quote. But if we take it as is, then TCM would disagree with his statement.

But I suspect that it&#039;s a matter of semantics.

The energy that helps you create healthy boundaries, that helps you to right wrongs, that helps you to fight for justice -- that&#039;s righteous anger.

The energy that the Dalai Lama uses to fight for freedom in Tibet, even after all these years -- that&#039;s righteous anger. ]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://flowingzen.com/how-to-get-angry-like-the-dalai-lama/#comment-57438">claire</a>.</p>
<p>Hi Claire. I don&#8217;t know the context of this quote. But if we take it as is, then TCM would disagree with his statement.</p>
<p>But I suspect that it&#8217;s a matter of semantics.</p>
<p>The energy that helps you create healthy boundaries, that helps you to right wrongs, that helps you to fight for justice &#8212; that&#8217;s righteous anger.</p>
<p>The energy that the Dalai Lama uses to fight for freedom in Tibet, even after all these years &#8212; that&#8217;s righteous anger. </p>
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		By: claire		</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 25 Sep 2016 23:42:16 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Dalai Lama:

There needs to be understanding that anger never helps to solve a problem. It destroys our peace of mind and blinds our ability to think clearly. Anger and attachment are emotions that distort our view of reality.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dalai Lama:</p>
<p>There needs to be understanding that anger never helps to solve a problem. It destroys our peace of mind and blinds our ability to think clearly. Anger and attachment are emotions that distort our view of reality.</p>
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		By: claire		</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 25 Sep 2016 23:11:48 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I understand what you are saying, but that seems a very broad definition.     

As I understand it you would say that responding appropriately and rationally (without any antagonism or other negative emotion) to any unsatisfactory  behavior or circumstance, is a form of anger?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I understand what you are saying, but that seems a very broad definition.     </p>
<p>As I understand it you would say that responding appropriately and rationally (without any antagonism or other negative emotion) to any unsatisfactory  behavior or circumstance, is a form of anger?</p>
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		By: Sifu Anthony Korahais		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Sifu Anthony Korahais]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 25 Sep 2016 21:46:09 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://flowingzen.com/how-to-get-angry-like-the-dalai-lama/#comment-57435&quot;&gt;claire&lt;/a&gt;.

HI Claire. According to TCM, Gandhi and MLK were angry. But it was righteous anger, not excessive anger.

As I mentioned in the article, people in the West always assume that anger is bad, and that it&#039;s always hostile. I tried to explain that the Eastern view is different.

If someone insults you, and you speak up for yourself -- that&#039;s anger, but it&#039;s not hostile.

If someone assaults you, and you get angry back, but rather than hit him back, you press charges -- that&#039;s anger, but it&#039;s not hostile. 

Make sense?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://flowingzen.com/how-to-get-angry-like-the-dalai-lama/#comment-57435">claire</a>.</p>
<p>HI Claire. According to TCM, Gandhi and MLK were angry. But it was righteous anger, not excessive anger.</p>
<p>As I mentioned in the article, people in the West always assume that anger is bad, and that it&#8217;s always hostile. I tried to explain that the Eastern view is different.</p>
<p>If someone insults you, and you speak up for yourself &#8212; that&#8217;s anger, but it&#8217;s not hostile.</p>
<p>If someone assaults you, and you get angry back, but rather than hit him back, you press charges &#8212; that&#8217;s anger, but it&#8217;s not hostile. </p>
<p>Make sense?</p>
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		By: claire		</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 25 Sep 2016 20:01:03 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Yes I was diagnosed by a very good TCM doctor.     

But on your last point, I am still puzzled about what the emotion of anger actually is your view.     It is more than just an emotional desire for change I assume?   

  All the definitions I have looked at involve that element of hostility/antagonism/harm  or something similar.    

I always thought that people like MLK and Gandhi were great not because they didn&#039;t have that kind of anger but because they managed to transform it into something more positive.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yes I was diagnosed by a very good TCM doctor.     </p>
<p>But on your last point, I am still puzzled about what the emotion of anger actually is your view.     It is more than just an emotional desire for change I assume?   </p>
<p>  All the definitions I have looked at involve that element of hostility/antagonism/harm  or something similar.    </p>
<p>I always thought that people like MLK and Gandhi were great not because they didn&#8217;t have that kind of anger but because they managed to transform it into something more positive.</p>
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		By: Sifu Anthony Korahais		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Sifu Anthony Korahais]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 25 Sep 2016 14:04:46 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://flowingzen.com/how-to-get-angry-like-the-dalai-lama/#comment-57432&quot;&gt;claire&lt;/a&gt;.

One more thing. Anger need not involve hostility. Look no further than Martin Luther King Jr. as an example.  ]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://flowingzen.com/how-to-get-angry-like-the-dalai-lama/#comment-57432">claire</a>.</p>
<p>One more thing. Anger need not involve hostility. Look no further than Martin Luther King Jr. as an example.  </p>
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		By: Sifu Anthony Korahais		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Sifu Anthony Korahais]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 25 Sep 2016 14:03:43 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://flowingzen.com/how-to-get-angry-like-the-dalai-lama/#comment-57432&quot;&gt;claire&lt;/a&gt;.

Hi Claire. Just to be clear, you were diagnosed with Liver Excess by a TCM doctor?

I think that Western psychology could really benefit from the Five Elements. When you understand the interplay between the elements, the interplay between emotions becomes clearer.

For example, fear often leads to anger, but not because fear is necessarily underneath anger. 

In TCM, we could describe it as the Water Element not nourishing the Wood Element. When this happens, anger can be affected.

The interplay of the Elements is complex, and needs a lot of study. But it&#039;s a cool model, and it really works well!

I&#039;ll write more about this in the future.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://flowingzen.com/how-to-get-angry-like-the-dalai-lama/#comment-57432">claire</a>.</p>
<p>Hi Claire. Just to be clear, you were diagnosed with Liver Excess by a TCM doctor?</p>
<p>I think that Western psychology could really benefit from the Five Elements. When you understand the interplay between the elements, the interplay between emotions becomes clearer.</p>
<p>For example, fear often leads to anger, but not because fear is necessarily underneath anger. </p>
<p>In TCM, we could describe it as the Water Element not nourishing the Wood Element. When this happens, anger can be affected.</p>
<p>The interplay of the Elements is complex, and needs a lot of study. But it&#8217;s a cool model, and it really works well!</p>
<p>I&#8217;ll write more about this in the future.</p>
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