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		By: Lucas		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lucas]]></dc:creator>
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					<description><![CDATA[Dear Sifu,

Greetings for the excelent article. I&#039;m a brazilin student of Qi Qong and Tai Chi Chuan and I follow your blog since 2017. Honestly, find this specific text saved my relationship with Qi Gong. I practice it with an skillfull teacher over three years and I almost gave up three times. I am completely desmotivated, because he&#039;s stringent, with no patience and use authority to teach us. Once, I argued about his way of teaching and he just told me &quot;I took these manners from my masters&quot;. So I thought: God, all the chinese art is this way, so? 

I had decided to give up. But now, a hope came to me. Thank you!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dear Sifu,</p>
<p>Greetings for the excelent article. I&#8217;m a brazilin student of Qi Qong and Tai Chi Chuan and I follow your blog since 2017. Honestly, find this specific text saved my relationship with Qi Gong. I practice it with an skillfull teacher over three years and I almost gave up three times. I am completely desmotivated, because he&#8217;s stringent, with no patience and use authority to teach us. Once, I argued about his way of teaching and he just told me &#8220;I took these manners from my masters&#8221;. So I thought: God, all the chinese art is this way, so? </p>
<p>I had decided to give up. But now, a hope came to me. Thank you!</p>
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		By: Sifu Anthony Korahais		</title>
		<link>https://flowingzen.com/how-im-taking-a-stand-against-abuse-and-building-a-safer-future-too/#comment-56556</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Sifu Anthony Korahais]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Oct 2015 14:11:03 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://flowingzen.com/how-im-taking-a-stand-against-abuse-and-building-a-safer-future-too/#comment-56555&quot;&gt;M. from Portugal&lt;/a&gt;.

Thanks, M. I&#039;m working hard to get my site fixed. Don&#039;t worry. I&#039;ll be blogging again soon!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://flowingzen.com/how-im-taking-a-stand-against-abuse-and-building-a-safer-future-too/#comment-56555">M. from Portugal</a>.</p>
<p>Thanks, M. I&#8217;m working hard to get my site fixed. Don&#8217;t worry. I&#8217;ll be blogging again soon!</p>
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		By: M. from Portugal		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[M. from Portugal]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Oct 2015 13:55:22 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Missing your updates, Sifu. Sometimes when I open this website it comes a kind of &quot;virus alert&quot;. I find your website the most inspiring on the Internet. Best wishes!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Missing your updates, Sifu. Sometimes when I open this website it comes a kind of &#8220;virus alert&#8221;. I find your website the most inspiring on the Internet. Best wishes!</p>
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		By: sheng		</title>
		<link>https://flowingzen.com/how-im-taking-a-stand-against-abuse-and-building-a-safer-future-too/#comment-56516</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[sheng]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Mar 2015 05:20:35 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[From what I know. The reason the traditions of student obeying unfailing teacher is that the teacher is regarded as a person of greater wisdom. Also all the trails are to weed out insincere and undetermine people and the authority of the teacher is not to teach people with bad intentions. E.g. greatest chi gong secrets are taught to select students who they deem worthy. This is to prevent bad students from using their skills yo commit crimes or injuring other students or even the teacher himself to be solo owner of such secrets.

This of course does not address when the teacher is the one comiting crimes. Unfortunately when they abuse these traditions citing it as it is they do not look at the highest code of conduct available. Many of china legendary figures and officials have great integrity yet some chinese citing chinese tradition such as guan xi knowns as relationship in english use it to enrich themselves. Ignoring one important virtue INTEGRITY.

Chinese art of war basically stresses the important of human rights as well with leaders learning to differentiate right and wrong etc. For a working organisation.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>From what I know. The reason the traditions of student obeying unfailing teacher is that the teacher is regarded as a person of greater wisdom. Also all the trails are to weed out insincere and undetermine people and the authority of the teacher is not to teach people with bad intentions. E.g. greatest chi gong secrets are taught to select students who they deem worthy. This is to prevent bad students from using their skills yo commit crimes or injuring other students or even the teacher himself to be solo owner of such secrets.</p>
<p>This of course does not address when the teacher is the one comiting crimes. Unfortunately when they abuse these traditions citing it as it is they do not look at the highest code of conduct available. Many of china legendary figures and officials have great integrity yet some chinese citing chinese tradition such as guan xi knowns as relationship in english use it to enrich themselves. Ignoring one important virtue INTEGRITY.</p>
<p>Chinese art of war basically stresses the important of human rights as well with leaders learning to differentiate right and wrong etc. For a working organisation.</p>
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		By: Joe		</title>
		<link>https://flowingzen.com/how-im-taking-a-stand-against-abuse-and-building-a-safer-future-too/#comment-55492</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Joe]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Feb 2015 00:44:17 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Dear Sifu Anthony,
The nature of the student teacher relationship has indeed changed. Student&#039;s needs, in the era of firearms, have generally changed. And different schools attract different students with different goals.
Some students want to learn to fight, others want to lose 10 lbs, others want to overcome a health problem, some want to overcome a mental health problem.  
My sense is that you are as much of a chi kung school as a martial arts school. For that reason, some students will be emotionally sick and want to learn Chi Kung to get better. 
Such students can obviously be unusually vulnerable and/or impressionable.  
Thus where chi kung is taught, and where people are seeking it to heal emotional problems, it is exceptionally important to take a rigid and inflexible stand against abuse.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dear Sifu Anthony,<br />
The nature of the student teacher relationship has indeed changed. Student&#8217;s needs, in the era of firearms, have generally changed. And different schools attract different students with different goals.<br />
Some students want to learn to fight, others want to lose 10 lbs, others want to overcome a health problem, some want to overcome a mental health problem.<br />
My sense is that you are as much of a chi kung school as a martial arts school. For that reason, some students will be emotionally sick and want to learn Chi Kung to get better.<br />
Such students can obviously be unusually vulnerable and/or impressionable.<br />
Thus where chi kung is taught, and where people are seeking it to heal emotional problems, it is exceptionally important to take a rigid and inflexible stand against abuse.</p>
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		By: Sifu Anthony Korahais		</title>
		<link>https://flowingzen.com/how-im-taking-a-stand-against-abuse-and-building-a-safer-future-too/#comment-55486</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Sifu Anthony Korahais]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 15 Feb 2015 21:13:55 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://flowingzen.com/how-im-taking-a-stand-against-abuse-and-building-a-safer-future-too/#comment-55485&quot;&gt;Libby Dunn&lt;/a&gt;.

Good points, Libby. Thanks!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://flowingzen.com/how-im-taking-a-stand-against-abuse-and-building-a-safer-future-too/#comment-55485">Libby Dunn</a>.</p>
<p>Good points, Libby. Thanks!</p>
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		By: Libby Dunn		</title>
		<link>https://flowingzen.com/how-im-taking-a-stand-against-abuse-and-building-a-safer-future-too/#comment-55485</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Libby Dunn]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 15 Feb 2015 21:08:28 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Dear Sifu,

Thank you for taking a stand against abuse in the student/teacher relationship.  The principles you describe and the steps you are taking seem to be a very good approach. I don&#039;t know enough about the Chinese traditions to be able to say which ones to keep and which ones to leave behind.

In reading the Atlantic article that was linked to the open letter you signed, I noticed two conditions that you might want to keep in mind when building protections against abuse at Flowing Zen. First, many people who come to these arts are seeking healing and, therefore, may be especially vulnerable to abuse. Second, much of the cover up and failure to respond was motivated by love of the arts and reluctance to destroy the school offering them.Both of these conditions contribute to an atmosphere in which abuse is more likely to occur and less likely to be immediately exposed.

I&#039;m not sure if these observations can be translated into stronger protections, but I thought it might be helpful to keep in mind.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dear Sifu,</p>
<p>Thank you for taking a stand against abuse in the student/teacher relationship.  The principles you describe and the steps you are taking seem to be a very good approach. I don&#8217;t know enough about the Chinese traditions to be able to say which ones to keep and which ones to leave behind.</p>
<p>In reading the Atlantic article that was linked to the open letter you signed, I noticed two conditions that you might want to keep in mind when building protections against abuse at Flowing Zen. First, many people who come to these arts are seeking healing and, therefore, may be especially vulnerable to abuse. Second, much of the cover up and failure to respond was motivated by love of the arts and reluctance to destroy the school offering them.Both of these conditions contribute to an atmosphere in which abuse is more likely to occur and less likely to be immediately exposed.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m not sure if these observations can be translated into stronger protections, but I thought it might be helpful to keep in mind.</p>
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		By: Pak Fu		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Pak Fu]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 15 Feb 2015 20:33:57 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Insightful post.  You have my respect and support.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Insightful post.  You have my respect and support.</p>
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		By: Christoff		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Christoff]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 15 Feb 2015 08:05:20 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Hi Sfu Anthony,

Anything, which includes above all the rights of humans to health, happiness and a life free from suffering.

The human life should be respected and cherished for what it can give each person, good or bad, young, or old, male or female.  There are no divisions.

Best wishes.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Sfu Anthony,</p>
<p>Anything, which includes above all the rights of humans to health, happiness and a life free from suffering.</p>
<p>The human life should be respected and cherished for what it can give each person, good or bad, young, or old, male or female.  There are no divisions.</p>
<p>Best wishes.</p>
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		By: Chuck B		</title>
		<link>https://flowingzen.com/how-im-taking-a-stand-against-abuse-and-building-a-safer-future-too/#comment-55465</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Chuck B]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 14 Feb 2015 23:32:26 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Thanks for your stand.  Abuse of this type can occur in any hierarchical organization when leaders loose sight of the important leadership trait that a great leader will take care of their flock.  It is good to see so many who have taken a stand for what is right.  Keep up the good work.  Chuck]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for your stand.  Abuse of this type can occur in any hierarchical organization when leaders loose sight of the important leadership trait that a great leader will take care of their flock.  It is good to see so many who have taken a stand for what is right.  Keep up the good work.  Chuck</p>
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